Pondering

I've given lotsa lotsa thought bout this...
I just don't wanna fight anymore.. not that we do fight..

Coz, I'm the one being angry and what not.. when the other party isn't keeping any grudges at all. Just lack of enthusiasm of some sort in the texting n calling area... and also lack of emotional feelings that we girls have plenty off.. sometimes too much.

Guys.. they just don't get the whole idea of texting or calling their girl back.. it's plain typical..

I've done plenty of interviews on my friends as well as research on the internet (yes people.. I am THAT rajin to study about the brain of men.. haha!!).

So there's a few options.. One is to keep silent mode.. giving him a taste of their own medicine... and they'll probably try to communicate with you back.. because they's be curious/worried and whatnot. Those who don't do that.. well.. then they're plain jerks.

Another is to give your guy the benefit of the doubt... and let loose. It's in our genes to call and text our guys frantically.. and sometimes all they need is space from us.. and we should have our own space as well.

And if our guy is really busy with work, and all stressed out..., not texting them back or being angry at them for not texting us or calling us.. is just a waste of time, coz it'll risen their stress level of some sort.

So the best thing to do is just reduce the number of txt messages u give them.. and when you do.. let it be of a calm nature.. or something that will make them smile or laugh.. to help easen their tension with work. It'll help our own self too in some ways y'know... and always give them support. Who knows.. it could also turn a new leaf into your men. haha!!

Yeah.. don't trust guys 100%... but don't - not trust them at all.. or you shouldn't be in a relationship at all if u can't trust your guy at some point. One point taken.. at least he does call or text you at some point of the day.. and when he find time to go out with you.. he makes sure your date with him is worthwhile.

I'm being his side-kick now... and cheerleader, as well as personal psychologist and motivator. hahaha...

Love u baby.